Temperamental in other words moody or erratic ...
Temperamental people are bound to react unpredictably and expect you
to be there as they change like rainbow colours.
I must say I find these type of people highly annoying and irritating.
They leave you wondering what it is that you have done wrong and in many cases,
you have nothing to do with their mood swings, however you're just there to pick up the pieces.
You are expect to be there when they have come back to their senses as a "friend",
to me this is also know as "doormat"... Temperamental people often have
no explanation for their change of behaviour therefore, they will avoid talking about it.
In some cases they tend to completely switch OFF. However my question is,
what am I to do when they switch back ON? should I still be there for them knowing that our friendship is seasonal? or make them taste some of their own medication?
What's a friend to do in this case?
Saturday, 25 September 2010
Friday, 3 September 2010
It's just a "beating" game!
For some its about getting their
numbers high,
And others subconsciously go into
it to find love...
But its just a "beating" game!..
A high percentage of females
become attached,
the question is how? And why?
That feeling of attachment
which makes u feel like he's yours
although you both know he's
far from it! IT BURNS!!
Although its just a "beating" game,
that burning feeling turns others
bitter and starts a cycle!
People forever go on about this cycle
that noone is willing to put a stop to,
boys hurting girls,
then those girls hurting boys and so on!
Has anyone looked at the roots of this cycle?
This cycle leaves people wondering whether
Beating out is the best option?
But where do you lock up your heart
so you can leave feelings at home?
numbers high,
And others subconsciously go into
it to find love...
But its just a "beating" game!..
A high percentage of females
become attached,
the question is how? And why?
That feeling of attachment
which makes u feel like he's yours
although you both know he's
far from it! IT BURNS!!
Although its just a "beating" game,
that burning feeling turns others
bitter and starts a cycle!
People forever go on about this cycle
that noone is willing to put a stop to,
boys hurting girls,
then those girls hurting boys and so on!
Has anyone looked at the roots of this cycle?
This cycle leaves people wondering whether
Beating out is the best option?
But where do you lock up your heart
so you can leave feelings at home?
Who am I?
Not ur average girl,
I don't hav a massive backoff nor a huge pair of boobs,
I don't wear the 16"-18" weave and excessive make up!
I'm just me... Size 8, 5"7 ... And a size 7..
10piercings and 2 tattoos but none are exposed.
Many pass their judgements after
seeing them but we're all human,I say
'cast the first stone if your perfect'
and I've still never seen any1 do so...
Insecure to the bone but never show it!
I'm a thinker so you'll never catch me blabing...
In my own world where I am conscious of my environment
more than you'd think...
Nothing goes by without me noticing...
Life's about the decisions you make and
every decision I make comes with a consequence,
I accept these consequences as
I am still living and learning.
I don't hav a massive backoff nor a huge pair of boobs,
I don't wear the 16"-18" weave and excessive make up!
I'm just me... Size 8, 5"7 ... And a size 7..
10piercings and 2 tattoos but none are exposed.
Many pass their judgements after
seeing them but we're all human,I say
'cast the first stone if your perfect'
and I've still never seen any1 do so...
Insecure to the bone but never show it!
I'm a thinker so you'll never catch me blabing...
In my own world where I am conscious of my environment
more than you'd think...
Nothing goes by without me noticing...
Life's about the decisions you make and
every decision I make comes with a consequence,
I accept these consequences as
I am still living and learning.
Sunday, 11 July 2010
Get-go of something new - First time...
First time,
She felt sick to her stomach..
She hadn't eaten so she knew there was nothing to throw up.
She carried on ...
After all, there's a first time for everything.
He liked it... They all say its 'the shit'..
She had to keep it clean without getting the place dirty.. It was sickening to a point where she focused and got on with it.. After all she knew it was a good...
She felt sick to her stomach..
She hadn't eaten so she knew there was nothing to throw up.
She carried on ...
After all, there's a first time for everything.
He liked it... They all say its 'the shit'..
She had to keep it clean without getting the place dirty.. It was sickening to a point where she focused and got on with it.. After all she knew it was a good...
Appreciate what you have - 1/5 of the Bio
You know when you've known them for all your life? When you don't know any other but them...
At first it was weird, having to adapt to a whole new family, a group of people you don't know, but you knew you'd have to get used to them sooner or later because they'll be there for life... Yes, that's right...LIFE!!!
You have to open your heart up and let them in, we were all young in mind, innocent, little children, around the same age, had to learn to forget the differences and focus on the similarities.
We shared a lot of similarities but as we grew up things changed and we started to notice the little differences we had. It wasn't because we wanted to, but because we had to! Of course we 'HAD' to tolerate each other... Our parents married and made vows, we had to tolerated each other for as long as that lasted.
Eventually it became a competition, there were four of them and two of us.. Who's really gona win? From schools to boyfriends, it was always us that they looked down at, waiting to see us fail... Us, who were fatherless, who would really be there to pick us up if we failed in life?
To me being fatherless is like being a bird with one wing, no matter how hard you try to fly you struggle because you have no balance, you have to apppreciate your other wing because that's all you have left and without it you might as well be dead.
I know it's hard to fly with one wing but I am a survivor and will prove that having just a wing isn't going to bring me down
** Moral of story: Always be grateful in life **
At first it was weird, having to adapt to a whole new family, a group of people you don't know, but you knew you'd have to get used to them sooner or later because they'll be there for life... Yes, that's right...LIFE!!!
You have to open your heart up and let them in, we were all young in mind, innocent, little children, around the same age, had to learn to forget the differences and focus on the similarities.
We shared a lot of similarities but as we grew up things changed and we started to notice the little differences we had. It wasn't because we wanted to, but because we had to! Of course we 'HAD' to tolerate each other... Our parents married and made vows, we had to tolerated each other for as long as that lasted.
Eventually it became a competition, there were four of them and two of us.. Who's really gona win? From schools to boyfriends, it was always us that they looked down at, waiting to see us fail... Us, who were fatherless, who would really be there to pick us up if we failed in life?
To me being fatherless is like being a bird with one wing, no matter how hard you try to fly you struggle because you have no balance, you have to apppreciate your other wing because that's all you have left and without it you might as well be dead.
I know it's hard to fly with one wing but I am a survivor and will prove that having just a wing isn't going to bring me down
** Moral of story: Always be grateful in life **
Thursday, 29 April 2010
Unconditional Love...
It's the love I have for you,
Also known as AGAPE love.
When I reached that stage,
I knew that I'd do anything for you.
The same way you'd do anything for me.
It's good to know that you love me as much
as I love you...
This Kind of love is endless, its the type
that God has for us.
And I know that I am ready to die for you,
as you are ready to die for me.
Mum, I love you!
Also known as AGAPE love.
When I reached that stage,
I knew that I'd do anything for you.
The same way you'd do anything for me.
It's good to know that you love me as much
as I love you...
This Kind of love is endless, its the type
that God has for us.
And I know that I am ready to die for you,
as you are ready to die for me.
Mum, I love you!
Saturday, 24 April 2010
Get-go of something good- You are mine!
The hottest day of that week, the journey started off with a ride, he drove her to different places while admiring each other and talking... They were hungry but she resisted as he stopped by at the local chip shop..'it's not time yet' she said to herself...
Parked up, got the chicken and chips from the man, said "thank you boss" and they made their way home... They'd met not long ago so it was still the 'getting to know each other' period...
They got home, he ate while she looked around and familiarised herself with the house. It felt like she'd known him for years!!! He made her feel comfortable and she knew they'd get on.
As he took the last bite, she made her move, he realised what time it was; she sat on his lap and started kissing him, she knew he was feeling her and wanted her, so the ball was in her court *this was the get-go of something good*... The boob-tube dress swiftly came off, as they touched and kissed. He was surprised as he chuckled (of course he wasn't expecting it), he was turned on and wasn't about to let go...
While they kissed in dangerous places, she saw the look of amazement in his face, she rubbed and while taking the glove he said "where do you want it?"...
Parked up, got the chicken and chips from the man, said "thank you boss" and they made their way home... They'd met not long ago so it was still the 'getting to know each other' period...
They got home, he ate while she looked around and familiarised herself with the house. It felt like she'd known him for years!!! He made her feel comfortable and she knew they'd get on.
As he took the last bite, she made her move, he realised what time it was; she sat on his lap and started kissing him, she knew he was feeling her and wanted her, so the ball was in her court *this was the get-go of something good*... The boob-tube dress swiftly came off, as they touched and kissed. He was surprised as he chuckled (of course he wasn't expecting it), he was turned on and wasn't about to let go...
While they kissed in dangerous places, she saw the look of amazement in his face, she rubbed and while taking the glove he said "where do you want it?"...
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